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Changes…To Write? Too late..

Friday 14th March 2014

Another exclusive unearthed from the Daily Gerald reporter…Gaa/C 2014©

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Changes/To write?….  The following report is purely a report.

Changes,, new developments and new mentality, Change it from yesterday to today, and tomorrow. What exactly constitutes to change. Changing ones underwear, changing ones clothes. Changing ones hairstyle or colour. The act of changing ones mind, yes I suppose these can all be accounted for as change.

Change – replace with another.  As I have just had done to me.

Change – attitudes, these are and can be considered drastic, and hurting, or just bad,  depending on what it is that has changed. Or how the person or persons changed.  eg: when something is considered good and normal between, say, two people. Whether it be siblings, parents or even lovers. This happens when one of them decides to change their thoughts and attitude towards and an on going situation. Especially when the other is thinking that it need not have changed as such.

I have just become one of the many, especially Facebooker’s to use a quote of the day or just quotes. What the hell is all this about? Proving that one can research and find all these quotes on Google or any other search option. Purely their choice I know, but it seems to be so rife  that it becomes boring. [Like me I suppose]. Easy it is to put a quote on a post or timeline, easier than writing our own words of wisdom, is it? oh! and it makes us all look good.  How many of us actually believe or follow the actions of these words that some person has thought up and written for us to make ourselves look good. Sad when people result to this. But I have ‘Changed’ and also become sad, because, hey I am using a couple myself. I say words of wisdom, well are they?  Do I actually heed or take in the words on these quotes, do you, it makes me wonder. 

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Lets take the first line – ‘no one falls in love by choice,  it is by chance’ [maybe so, but we do have a choice. Do we not have control of our own emotions and mind.]

Second line – no one stays in love by choice, it is by work. [to me this is pathetic, love is natural and needs no work. relationships yes maybe]

Third line – no one falls out of love by chance. it is by choice. [ I will be nasty and say what a load of crap. I have never experienced falling out of love by choice.] It is usually forced on one by the opposite party.

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How ever you might well disagree, but that is your choice and is respected. But what I have encountered partly for my myself but seen from the outside looking in, is the absolute rubbish people say just to verify their reasoning. You have changed, is a common one. Even exaggerate the situation. I can be and probably have been guilty of this as well, it just seems to be human nature. Words like this demean the real emotion of love, the power, the drug to be addicted to. So many ways to love, fall in love, experience love, in fact there are far too many to mention, THERE ARE NO RULES TO LOVE! are there?  Yet someone writes a few lines and hey: we are all using them. [including me]

Change, can be made voluntarily, as much as unknown to us, changes gradually happen while we live, not knowing it is happening. We are told this is life.  But is it and are we so readily to accept this, or should we question. I think it is often used as an excuse, not a reason. Health is a good reason for change, forced upon us, and we have to adapt and change to compensate the illness and its symptoms. That is another post, which will be written and edited shortly by Daily Gerald newspaper.

 Gaa/C 2014©

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March 14, 2014 Posted by | Feelings an Attitudes, Interest, Personal, Space, Uncategorized | , , , , , , , , , | 21 Comments

Hindsight, if Only!

Tuesday 18th March 2014.

16566Hindsight.. 

During an interview with Gerry he revealed some secret thoughts. Thoughts and feelings that he kept to himself, even from family and doctor. Below is some of the thoughts he revealed to us.

As most of you know I have been in hospital recently, and no I am not going to bore with more from my experience whilst in hospital. But I am going to say I was diagnosed as Diabetic just about 2 years ago, my doesn’t time fly. All my knowledge of the disease was mostly learnt whilst in hospital, the nurses and the diabetic technician was happy to talk to me. I was being tested daily, at least twice, but usually more. My diabetes is Type 2 and is controlled by diet and pills. My latest doctors visit and tests I wastold ‘my diabetes is well controlled and within the limits expected. Oh and my retinal scans have returned clear.

However for a long period, from being told about being diabetic, I was taking antacid tablets regularly, almost daily. I was getting heart burn rather too much, but sucking a tablet cleared it for a while. Naivety I suppose created a problem that came to a head in December 2013. If only I realised what was happening, my stay in hospital I learnt so much. Just for example constant heartburn could be a sign of heart problems. In my case it was. 

Being asthmatic all my life, I have learnt to deal with things and become part of my normal. Not sleeping, well only a few hours nightly..But the past two years I was dozing a lot during the day as well as having my few hours nightly. If I was braver, less naive and talked to the right people, who knows what may have resulted. Maybe I was actually scared to hear the truth. I later became aware of the symptoms and their possible disease or illness. 

I learnt so much while in hospital, like heart burn regularly ie: daily, was a big sign for possible heart problems. I learnt that aches in my arms is also a sign for later heart problems. A man of 60 years with asthma and recently diabetic becomes a high risk. My doctor told me I now became a high risk patient, I would have to be regularly monitored. On a loser it seems to me. So all in all I was rather stupid not to tell my doctor about these happenings as and when they happened. I buried my head in the proverbial sand, frightened of what I might learn. I nearly paid for it with my life. I have to thank my doctor for her insight to take a blood test and ask for certain tests.

Precautions…

Lets Re-cap.

1. Constant heart burn, occurring daily or every couple of days. Remedy- seek doctors advice.  

2.Pains or aches in one’s arm or arms, seemingly losing strength. Remedy – seek doctors advice.

3. Tiredness, having no energy, and dozing or sleeping during the day. Remedy – seek doctors advice.

4. Keeping check on one’s health especially if one suffers from Asthma, Diabetes, or any other ailments.                                                            

Remedy- have regular check ups with your doctor.

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To sum up, if I was a little more aware and possibly not so naive, maybe just maybe things could have been averted, and my life would be so different. I am hoping this post will at the very least help some one somewhere..IN HINDSIGHT.

http://www.bhf.org.uk/heart-health/treatment/coronary-bypass-surgery.aspx

http://www.diabetes.co.uk/index.html

http://www.diabetes.org.uk/

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diabetes_UK

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March 13, 2014 Posted by | Feelings an Attitudes, Interest, Love, News, Personal, Uncategorized | , , , , , | 9 Comments

Xmas Story [Gift of Love] 19

Thursday 19th December 2013.

Penultimate part.

Christmas story best

Home at Last.

Home at Last.

Xmas story 19

To be Continued.. Final part tomorrow….

Please excuse any errors and enjoy. Thank you.

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December 19, 2013 Posted by | Love, Music, New Forest, Personal, Uncategorized | , , , , , , , , , , | 7 Comments

Xmas Story [Gift of Love] 15

Sunday 15th December 2013

Christmas story best

Disappointment.

Disappointments.

Xmas story 15

December 15, 2013 Posted by | Love, Music, New Forest, Personal | , , , , , , , , , | 6 Comments

Xmas Story [Gift of Love] 14

Saturday 14th December 2013.

Christmas story best

Hand in Hand.

Hand in Hand.

Xmas story 14

To be Continued….

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December 14, 2013 Posted by | Feelings an Attitudes, Interest, Love, Music, New Forest, Personal, Uncategorized | , , , , , , , | 7 Comments

Xmas Story [Gift of Love] 13

Friday 13th December 2013

Christmas story best

At Last We Meet Again.  {beautiful piece}

At Last We Meet.

Xmas story 13

To be Continued…

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December 13, 2013 Posted by | Feelings an Attitudes, Interest, Love, Music, New Forest, Personal, Uncategorized | , , , , , , , , | 5 Comments

Xmas Story [Gift of Love] 12

Thursday 12th December 2013

Christmas story best

Cyber Love.  not my type of music but is very apt,and I am open-minded in my music. Enjoy!

Cyber Meet.

Xmas story 12

To be Continued……

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December 12, 2013 Posted by | Feelings an Attitudes, Interest, Love, Music, New Forest, Personal, Uncategorized | , , , , , , , | 6 Comments

Xmas Story [Gift of Love] 11

Wednesday 11th December 2013

Christmas story best

Never the Twain.

Never the Twain.

Xmas story 11

To be Continued……

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December 11, 2013 Posted by | Feelings an Attitudes, Love, Music, Personal | , , , , , , , , , | 7 Comments

Xmas Story [Gift of Love] 10

Tuesday 10th December 2013.

Christmas story best

She Will be Loved.

Will She?

Xmas story 10

To be Continued…….

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December 10, 2013 Posted by | Love, Music, New Forest, Personal | , , , , , , , | 9 Comments

Xmas Story [Gift of Love] 8

Sunday 8th December 2013.

Christmas story best

Hope was Born this Night.

Given Hope.

Xmas story 8

To be Continued….

Please excuse errors, and enjoy.  Thank you….

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December 8, 2013 Posted by | Feelings an Attitudes, Love, Music, Personal, Uncategorized | , , , , , | 7 Comments

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